The Charming, Affordable Way to Plan a New Jersey Micro Wedding

If you’ve recently become engaged - perhaps even while staying at the Inn - you may be searching for a beautiful, affordable venue where your new chapter can begin. Nestled quietly in Stanhope, New Jersey, The Whistling Swan Inn offers couples a romantic, storybook setting perfectly suited for elopements and micro weddings. With Victorian architecture, serene gardens, and a warm, inviting interior, the Inn provides an unforgettable backdrop for intimate celebrations.

There is something unmistakably special about the atmosphere at The Whistling Swan Inn. Historic elegance, lush greenery, and thoughtfully preserved architectural details come together to create a setting that feels both timeless and deeply personal.

Some couples choose to exchange vows in the garden among the seasonal blooms, while others prefer the soft glow of our common room or parlor fireplace. No matter the season, every corner of the Inn offers a picturesque place to say “I do.”

 

Every couple arrives with their own vision, and we take great care in honoring it.
We specialize in creating customized, intimate experiences for elopements and micro weddings. Whether your plans include only the two of you or a small gathering of loved ones, we work closely with each couple to ensure their celebration reflects their personality and priorities.

From your ceremony location to the finishing touches, your day is crafted with intention.

 

Exceptional hospitality is central to the experience at The Whistling Swan Inn. Our team is dedicated to ensuring that your wedding day is as stress-free as it is memorable.

For added simplicity, our Innkeeper is also a licensed wedding officiant, allowing couples to plan their entire celebration - from vows to accommodations - under one roof.

We handle the logistics so you can enjoy your moment fully.

Wedding Packages Designed for Affordability and Elegance

We believe that small weddings can be extraordinarily beautiful without an overwhelming cost. Our packages are designed with both value and quality in mind.

Includes:

• Exclusive use of indoor and outdoor ceremony spaces
• Officiant services
• One-night stay in the bridal suite (based on availability) or another premium suite
• Bouquet and boutonniere
• Couples wedding cake
• Champagne or sparkling cider toast

For couples wishing to celebrate with an intimate group of family and friends, the Love & Cherish Package offers an elegant, heartfelt gathering without the complexity of a larger event. This option is ideal for elopements with guests or vow renewals.

Includes:

• Ceremony in the parlor or garden (weather permitting)
• Licensed wedding officiant
• Private family-style luncheon or dinner in the dining room
• Bridal bouquet of seasonal flowers
• Groom’s boutonniere
• 8-inch wedding cake in your choice of flavors
• Chilled champagne or sparkling cider toast
• Two-night stay in the bridal suite (based on availability) or another premium suite

Includes:

• Use of the main floor, garden, and wraparound porch for up to four hours
• Planning and day-of coordination
• Full ceremony setup, staff service, and cleanup
• Buffet-style meal (entrée, salad, sides, bread)
• Coffee and tea service
• Non-alcoholic beverage package
• Two-night stay in the bridal or premium suite
• Wedding officiant

Custom packages are available for couples seeking a tailored approach.

To celebrate Small Business Saturday, we are offering a special incentive for couples booking their 2026 wedding date at The Whistling Swan Inn.

We have five remaining dates for 2026, and couples who reserve by December 31 will receive one of the following complimentary items:

• Complimentary appetizer
• One additional event hour
• Complimentary night’s stay before or after the wedding*
  *Based on availability

Available 2026 Dates:
May 2, May 16, June 27, July 11, October 10

Learn more about our packages at:
Whistling Swan Inn Weddings

 

Our catering selections are designed to meet a variety of tastes and preferences.

A relaxed, welcoming spread of pastries, quiches, fruit, and coffee - ideal for morning ceremonies or farewell gatherings.

Self-serve options made with fresh, local ingredients.

Charcuterie, hors d'oeuvres, and elegant small bites for a casual yet sophisticated atmosphere.

Menus can be adapted for dietary needs and personal preferences.

 

The Whistling Swan Inn provides an abundance of lovely locations for photographs, including:

• The garden with seasonal bloomsThe wraparound porch with Victorian charm
• The central staircase for intimate portraits
• Fireplaces for cozy winter ceremonies
• Beautifully decorated rooms for getting-ready or newlywed photos

Every part of the Inn offers a memorable backdrop.

 

Couples wishing to extend their celebration often reserve all nine guest rooms, turning the Inn into a private retreat for family and friends.

A whole-inn rental provides:

• A welcome gathering the night before
• A peaceful, unrushed wedding morning
• A farewell brunch shared with loved ones
• Whole Inn Rental
• High season (May 1 – October 31)
• Two-night minimum for Thursday–Saturday weddings
• Approximately $4,000 for all nine rooms for two nights

From intimate ceremonies to micro weddings filled with character, The Whistling Swan Inn offers both affordability and elegance. We would love to help you bring your vision to life.

Explore packages or schedule a tour:
Whistling Swan Inn Weddings

To learn more about our approach to intimate celebrations, you can listen to our recent interview on the New Jersey Wedding Podcast, where we discussed what makes weddings at the Inn so meaningful.

Podcast episode:
The Whistling Swan Inn - A New Jersey Micro Wedding Venue

Your wedding can be beautiful, heartfelt, and accessible - and we would be delighted to welcome you.