Skip to main content
Text logo for "The Whistling Swan Inn" located in Stanhope, New Jersey.
  • A man in a suit smiles while standing next to a lamp, with a woman in a white dress reflected in a nearby mirror.

Weddings & Elopements

At the Whistling Swan Inn, we’re honored to host your most meaningful moments. Our dedicated staff goes above and beyond to make your New Jersey elopement or micro wedding seamless, stress-free, and unforgettable. From the moment you arrive at our mansion bed & breakfast, we handle the details—so you can focus on what truly matters: celebrating your love.

For added convenience, our innkeeper is also a certified wedding officiant. Whether you're planning an intimate elopement or a small wedding with loved ones, we offer everything you need to make your ceremony effortless and meaningful.

Wedding Packages:

I Do á Deux Elopement Package

Our intimate elopement package for two includes:

  • Candlelight ceremony in our front parlor or in our garden gazebo
  • Wedding officiant
  • Bridal bouquet of seasonal flowers and groom’s boutonniere
  • Couples wedding cake in your choice of flavors
  • Chilled champagne or sparkling cider
  • One-night overnight stay in one of our luxurious suites
  • Weekday elopement package is priced at $1200 before tax 
  • Weekend elopement package is priced at $1400 before tax

Love and Cherish Elopement Package

For those who would like to celebrate with only a few friends, we offer a package which includes:

  • Candlelight ceremony in our front parlor or garden gazebo
  • Wedding officiant
  • Bridal bouquet of seasonal flowers and groom’s boutonniere
  • 8-inch wedding cake in your choice of flavors
  • Champagne or sparkling cider toast for all
  • Two-night overnight stay in one of our suites
  • Buffet lunch/dinner
  • This elopement package is designed for up to 6 guests and is planned as a two-hour event priced at $2500 before tax. 

This package is also ideal for vow renewal.

Micro Wedding Packages — From $110 per person

For those seeking an outstanding location for an intimate, elegant wedding for up to 60 guests (outdoors) or 30 guests (indoors), the Whistling Swan Inn is ideal!

Includes:

  • Use of our garden, wrap-around porch, parlors, and powder room

  • Dinner and appetizer service

  • Dedicated servers

  • Two-night stay in a suite of your choice

  • Non-alcoholic beverage package

  • Coffee and tea service

  • Tables, linens, chairs, glasses, plates, and flatware

Delicious, Local Catering

Crafted with care from trusted local favorites.

We proudly partner with Mama’s Cafe Baci, a beloved local restaurant known for its flavorful, high-quality dishes and customizable menus.

Catering Options Include:

  • Brunch Buffets– Featuring fresh pastries, quiches, seasonal fruit, and gourmet coffee

  • Dinner Buffets– From comfort food classics to elegant gourmet selections

  • Cocktail Receptions– Light bites, charcuterie boards, and artisan hors d'oeuvres

Our catering packages are fully customizable to suit your taste, dietary needs, and cultural traditions.

Picture-Perfect Backdrops

Capture memories that last a lifetime.

Your wedding deserves a breathtaking setting. Our venue offers numerous photo-ready locations, including:

  • The Garden– A romantic space with vibrant blooms and lush greenery

  • The Wrap-around Porch– Ideal for charming, candid moments

  • The Central Staircase– Perfect for timeless indoor portraits

  • Cozy Fireplaces– Create a warm, intimate feel for winter weddings

Our beautifully decorated rooms also provide the perfect space for getting ready and newlywed portraits.

A Weekend to Remember

Extend the celebration and make memories all weekend long.

Many couples choose to turn their wedding into a full weekend retreat with loved ones. Here’s what that can include:

  • Welcome Gathering– Host a pre-wedding evening with close friends and family

  • Relaxing Wedding Morning– Enjoy a peaceful start with gourmet breakfast and time to prepare

  • Post-Wedding Brunch– End your weekend on a high note with delicious food and heartfelt farewells

When you book your wedding at Whistling Swan Inn, we are solely focused on you and your event. The inn can accommodate a maximum of 20 overnight guests.

Discounts apply for weddings booked Monday - Thursday.

Let’s Plan Your Dream Day

Whether you're envisioning an intimate elopement or a charming micro wedding, the Whistling Swan Inn is ready to bring your vision to life—with warmth, elegance, and ease.

Please email us at info@whistlingswaninn.com for wedding inquiries. 

Wedding Gallery

A person in a white dress sits on a couch, smiling while adjusting their outfit.
A table setting featuring a decorative yellow vase with a flower, a sign indicating "Table 3," and various glasses and plates.
A couple walks down the aisle during a wedding ceremony, surrounded by seated guests.
Two glass vases with colorful flowers are placed on a table, with an arched trellis in the background.
A bride kisses her groom under an outdoor gazebo surrounded by greenery.
A couple exchanges vows during their wedding ceremony at a gazebo, surrounded by lush greenery.
A decorative guest book setup featuring a framed sign with prompts, a notebook, colorful pens, and a small gift.
A woman stands on a porch with white curtains and hanging plants beside decorative stone columns.
A bride and groom exchange vows under a gazebo during a wedding ceremony, with guests seated nearby.
A beautifully decorated table featuring a green vase with vibrant flowers and whimsical gnome figurines.
A bride and groom exchange vows under a gazebo during a wedding ceremony.
A decorative seating chart displayed on a vintage window frame, embellished with flowers and listing table assignments for an event.
A beautifully set table featuring whimsical fairy-themed decorations and a name card for Mr. and Mrs. Cudworth.
A wedding officiant stands under a gazebo addressing guests, while a couple shares a kiss.
A row of white folding chairs is set up beside a flowerbed filled with red blooms and a stone fountain.
A person in a white dress sits on a couch, smiling while adjusting their outfit.
A beautifully decorated table featuring a green vase with vibrant flowers and whimsical gnome figurines.
Two glass vases with colorful flowers are placed on a table, with an arched trellis in the background.
A bride kisses her groom under an outdoor gazebo surrounded by greenery.
A decorative guest book setup featuring a framed sign with prompts, a notebook, colorful pens, and a small gift.
A bride and groom exchange vows under a gazebo during a wedding ceremony, with guests seated nearby.
A couple walks down the aisle during a wedding ceremony, surrounded by seated guests.
A beautifully set table featuring whimsical fairy-themed decorations and a name card for Mr. and Mrs. Cudworth.
A couple exchanges vows during their wedding ceremony at a gazebo, surrounded by lush greenery.
A row of white folding chairs is set up beside a flowerbed filled with red blooms and a stone fountain.
A table setting featuring a decorative yellow vase with a flower, a sign indicating "Table 3," and various glasses and plates.
A bride and groom exchange vows under a gazebo during a wedding ceremony.
A decorative seating chart displayed on a vintage window frame, embellished with flowers and listing table assignments for an event.
A wedding officiant stands under a gazebo addressing guests, while a couple shares a kiss.
A woman stands on a porch with white curtains and hanging plants beside decorative stone columns.
A person in a white dress sits on a couch, smiling while adjusting their outfit.
A couple walks down the aisle during a wedding ceremony, surrounded by seated guests.
A couple exchanges vows during their wedding ceremony at a gazebo, surrounded by lush greenery.
A woman stands on a porch with white curtains and hanging plants beside decorative stone columns.
A bride and groom exchange vows under a gazebo during a wedding ceremony, with guests seated nearby.
A bride and groom exchange vows under a gazebo during a wedding ceremony.
A beautifully set table featuring whimsical fairy-themed decorations and a name card for Mr. and Mrs. Cudworth.
A decorative guest book setup featuring a framed sign with prompts, a notebook, colorful pens, and a small gift.
A table setting featuring a decorative yellow vase with a flower, a sign indicating "Table 3," and various glasses and plates.
A decorative seating chart displayed on a vintage window frame, embellished with flowers and listing table assignments for an event.
A wedding officiant stands under a gazebo addressing guests, while a couple shares a kiss.
A beautifully decorated table featuring a green vase with vibrant flowers and whimsical gnome figurines.
Two glass vases with colorful flowers are placed on a table, with an arched trellis in the background.
A bride kisses her groom under an outdoor gazebo surrounded by greenery.
A row of white folding chairs is set up beside a flowerbed filled with red blooms and a stone fountain.