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Weddings & Elopements

At the Whistling Swan Inn, we’re honored to host your most meaningful moments. Our caring team is dedicated to creating a warm and welcoming experience for every couple, ensuring your celebration is seamless, stress-free, and unforgettable.

Set within our charming Victorian mansion, the inn offers a beautiful setting for elopements, vow renewals, and smaller weddings - events where every detail feels personal and every guest feels at home. Whether you imagine an indoor ceremony surrounded by timeless elegance or an outdoor gathering in the garden, your day here will be thoughtful, relaxed, and uniquely yours.

Wedding Packages

I Do á Deux Elopement Package
$1,400 (Monday -Thursday)
$1,600 (Friday - Sunday)

For couples seeking a simple, meaningful ceremony without the bustle of a large event. Exchange vows in our romantic parlor or blooming garden, and savor a peaceful overnight stay together. Includes:

  • Ceremony in the parlor or garden (weather permitting)
  • Wedding officiant
  • Bridal bouquet of seasonal flowers and groom's boutonniere
  • Couples wedding cake in your choice of flavors
  • Chilled champagne or sparkling cider toast
  • One-night stay in our bridal suite (based on availability) or another premium suite

Love & Cherish Elopement Package
$3,000 (for up to 10 guests)

This intimate celebration offers a warm, elegant gathering with your closest loved ones. After your ceremony, enjoy a cozy family-style luncheon or dinner in our dining room.
Includes:

  • Ceremony in the parlor or garden (weather permitting)
  • Wedding officiant
  • Private dining room luncheon or dinner, family-style
  • Bridal bouquet of seasonal flowers and groom's boutonniere
  • 8-inch wedding cake in your choice of flavors
  • Chilled champagne or sparkling cider toast
  • Two-night stay in our bridal suite (based on availability) or another premium suite

This package is also ideal for vow renewal.

Whistling Swan Micro Wedding Packages


(Up to 60 Guests)

Our micro weddings offer a relaxed, beautifully coordinated celebration for couples who want elegance and simplicity in a charming, intimate setting. Our garden provides a romantic backdrop for warm-weather weddings and open-air receptions.

Micro Wedding Pricing

  • Up to 20 guests - $4,400
  • Up to 40 guests - $6,800
  • Up to 60 guests - $9,200

Each micro wedding includes:

  • Use of the main floor of the inn, garden and wrap around porch for ceremony and reception (up to 4 hours)
  • Planning and day-of coordination
  • Ceremony setup, staff service and full cleanup
  • Buffet-style meal (entrée, salad, sides, bread)
  • Coffee and tea service
  • Tables, linens, chairs, glasses, plates, and flatware
  • Non-alcoholic beverage package
  • Two-night stay in our bridal suite (based on availability) or another premium suite
  • Wedding officiant

Not Included:

  • Cake
  • Photographer
  • Music
  • Flowers
  • Tent rental/dance floor
  • Alcohol (BYO permitted; no hard liquor; glassware available)
  • New Jersey sales tax and standard 20% gratuity

Enhance Your Celebration: Reserve the Entire Inn

For the ultimate wedding-weekend experience, couples may reserve all nine guest rooms at The Whistling Swan Inn. This transforms the property into your own private retreat - perfect for relaxing with family, hosting your bridal party, and extending the joy of your celebration.

Whole Inn Rental Option

  • High season (May 1 - October 31)
  • Two-night minimum (Thursday - Saturday weddings)
  • Approximately $4,000 for all nine rooms for two nights

This option provides:

  • Convenience for out-of-town guests
  • Ample space for getting ready
  • A private, relaxed wedding weekend atmosphere

Couples choose The Whistling Swan Inn for its charming Victorian setting, personal attention, and the relaxed, stress-free atmosphere that surrounds every celebration. With flexible options for florals, cake, décor, and ceremony details, each wedding becomes a reflection of the couple's own style. Many guests also enjoy reserving the entire inn to create a cozy wedding weekend shared with loved ones. We were featured on the New Jersey Wedding Podcast, where we shared insights about hosting intimate celebrations - listen to the episode Weddings at the Whistling Swan Inn are warm, elegant, and filled with genuine connection.

Wedding Gallery

A person in a white dress sits on a couch, smiling while adjusting their outfit.
A table setting featuring a decorative yellow vase with a flower, a sign indicating "Table 3," and various glasses and plates.
A couple walks down the aisle during a wedding ceremony, surrounded by seated guests.
Two glass vases with colorful flowers are placed on a table, with an arched trellis in the background.
A bride kisses her groom under an outdoor gazebo surrounded by greenery.
A couple exchanges vows during their wedding ceremony at a gazebo, surrounded by lush greenery.
A decorative guest book setup featuring a framed sign with prompts, a notebook, colorful pens, and a small gift.
A woman stands on a porch with white curtains and hanging plants beside decorative stone columns.
A bride and groom exchange vows under a gazebo during a wedding ceremony, with guests seated nearby.
A beautifully decorated table featuring a green vase with vibrant flowers and whimsical gnome figurines.
A bride and groom exchange vows under a gazebo during a wedding ceremony.
A decorative seating chart displayed on a vintage window frame, embellished with flowers and listing table assignments for an event.
A beautifully set table featuring whimsical fairy-themed decorations and a name card for Mr. and Mrs. Cudworth.
A wedding officiant stands under a gazebo addressing guests, while a couple shares a kiss.
A row of white folding chairs is set up beside a flowerbed filled with red blooms and a stone fountain.
A person in a white dress sits on a couch, smiling while adjusting their outfit.
A beautifully decorated table featuring a green vase with vibrant flowers and whimsical gnome figurines.
Two glass vases with colorful flowers are placed on a table, with an arched trellis in the background.
A bride kisses her groom under an outdoor gazebo surrounded by greenery.
A decorative guest book setup featuring a framed sign with prompts, a notebook, colorful pens, and a small gift.
A bride and groom exchange vows under a gazebo during a wedding ceremony, with guests seated nearby.
A couple walks down the aisle during a wedding ceremony, surrounded by seated guests.
A beautifully set table featuring whimsical fairy-themed decorations and a name card for Mr. and Mrs. Cudworth.
A couple exchanges vows during their wedding ceremony at a gazebo, surrounded by lush greenery.
A row of white folding chairs is set up beside a flowerbed filled with red blooms and a stone fountain.
A table setting featuring a decorative yellow vase with a flower, a sign indicating "Table 3," and various glasses and plates.
A bride and groom exchange vows under a gazebo during a wedding ceremony.
A decorative seating chart displayed on a vintage window frame, embellished with flowers and listing table assignments for an event.
A wedding officiant stands under a gazebo addressing guests, while a couple shares a kiss.
A woman stands on a porch with white curtains and hanging plants beside decorative stone columns.
A person in a white dress sits on a couch, smiling while adjusting their outfit.
A couple walks down the aisle during a wedding ceremony, surrounded by seated guests.
A couple exchanges vows during their wedding ceremony at a gazebo, surrounded by lush greenery.
A woman stands on a porch with white curtains and hanging plants beside decorative stone columns.
A bride and groom exchange vows under a gazebo during a wedding ceremony, with guests seated nearby.
A bride and groom exchange vows under a gazebo during a wedding ceremony.
A beautifully set table featuring whimsical fairy-themed decorations and a name card for Mr. and Mrs. Cudworth.
A decorative guest book setup featuring a framed sign with prompts, a notebook, colorful pens, and a small gift.
A table setting featuring a decorative yellow vase with a flower, a sign indicating "Table 3," and various glasses and plates.
A decorative seating chart displayed on a vintage window frame, embellished with flowers and listing table assignments for an event.
A wedding officiant stands under a gazebo addressing guests, while a couple shares a kiss.
A beautifully decorated table featuring a green vase with vibrant flowers and whimsical gnome figurines.
Two glass vases with colorful flowers are placed on a table, with an arched trellis in the background.
A bride kisses her groom under an outdoor gazebo surrounded by greenery.
A row of white folding chairs is set up beside a flowerbed filled with red blooms and a stone fountain.